Q: I am pregnant with my first child. I will soon be married to a guy who was with a woman for seven years. His “son” is 6 and my fiance wants this kid to come to our wedding ceremony. I said no. He was never married to his mother and to continue to be involved on that level will just complicate our life. This is our day! My fiance is furious and suggested I write to you. Once and for all, what’s good ex-etiquette?
A: The reason your fiance wanted you to write to me is because he probably knows what I am going to say. He takes his responsibility as a parent seriously, and since the primary rule to Good Ex-etiquette for Parents