DEAR AMY: My mother and younger sister have had a strained relationship since we were kids. They both fall into some pretty toxic behaviors, and refuse to acknowledge or apologize for their intentionally hurtful behavior, instead preferring to view themselves solely as the innocent victim in all of their fallouts.
Recently, they had another big falling-out, and decided to cut each other out of their lives as a result. Both have stated that they’re not interested in attempting to reconcile. They consider the damage to their relationship irreparable at this point.
My mother just told me that both she and my father have decided to write my sister out of their wills. Instead they will be making charitable donations with a large portion of the